Never Talk to Strangers – DivX Version (Normal Quality), DVD (Good Quality), PDA Version, iPod/iPhone Version
Posted by terrencemason1950 on 22 Noviembre 2009
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IMDB rating: 4.80 Plot: Sarah Taylor, a police psychologist, meets a mysterious and seductive young man, Tony Ramirez, and falls in love with him. As a cause of this relationship she changes her personality when she begins to receive anonymous telefon calls. |
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Actors: Banderas Antonio,Miller Dennis,Cariou Len,Stanton Harry Dean,Lipinski Eugene,Starr Beau,Jarrett Phillip,Kelleher Tim,Gannascoli Joseph R.,Dreger Reg,Thriller,
what should i do about my girlfriend dancing for strange guys on stage in her under wear and should i be ok wi?
hi
recenty my girlfriend started doing burlesque shows. i think it’s just a way for her to get on stage and strip to her under wear and talk dirty with a room full of strangers. is it wrong that i don’t like it, i haven’t told her out right cause she just says it for a laugh but i dont understand why she wants a room full of drunk guys ogling her. whats worse is its making me less attracted to her cause she gets new lingerie all the time for the show and then says its just for me but we both know it’s not true cause lots of people are going to see her half naked in it, also she wont talk dirty to me in bed but she’ll get on stage and talk filth. i always had the feeling she never enjoyed sex unless someone could hear or accidentally walk in on us but when we got our own place and a few months later she started the shows.
my question is am i wrong to not like this, should i tell her how i feel and what should i do cause i think this is going to end everything even thought she says she loves me i just don’t think i’m enough for her.
I think that her body and yours should be for each other only.
Eskamoo | Nov 18, 2009
I think that you should let her know that you are not comfortable with it. I think, actually, that you probably should have said something about it before she took the job. I think that it’s understandable that you would be uncomfortable with your girlfriend being lusted over by a bunch of guys that want to do it to her everyday. I’m sure that if I were to go out in lingerie and give a bunch of strangers b*ners, my boyfriend might be a little miffed about that and I would understand. I am sure that she wouldn’t like you doing the same…if there is a male equivalent to that job, anyway. I think you should have mentioned your feelings before she started the job, however,
You should talk to her and hopefully she will understand and want to look for something else. Any girl that has that kind of job seems to me to be dying for male attention. She wants every guy to want her. yeah, I can absolutely see why you aren’t happy with your girlfriend prancing about barely wearing anything in front of a bunch of horny men wanting to do it to her. You should gently let her know how you feel about it.
holeemel | Nov 18, 2009
I actually think you might be taking it a little out of context. Most burlesque shows have lots of women in the audience, and your girlfriend obviously loves doing it. Trust her and support what she is doing, until she gives you a reason not to trust her then you need to be happy that she is doing something she loves! Also with regards to the whole not talking dirty to you in bed thing, when she’s on stage I would imagine she’s playing a part, it’s like its not her, it’s an alter-ego. Some people get really embarrassed about talking dirty to their partner in bed, so I wouldn’t worry about that!
DL 69 | Nov 18, 2009
Have a talk with her and let her know how much this is bothering you. Explain to her that what’s the problem why does she like to get all this attention from drunk guys and why is it that she cannot talk dirty to you when she does it to other men?Honestly this girl sounds like a damn S***! She needs to know how to respect herself and her boyfriend. If she doesn’t want to listen to you and accept what you don’t like then you need to leave her. You will never be comfortable with the relationship and at the end it might turn out to be a huge mistake staying with her.
Ana | Nov 18, 2009
There are two ways that you can look at this:
1) She loves you and, when she climbs into bed, you are the only one she wants to be with or
2) She craves the attention of men, she has a need to be admired and she will not change no matter what you say or do.
If you choose the first choice, support her and be happy that you are the one she has chosen to share her bed with.
If you choose the second choice, chances are this will eat at you until you push her away with your insecurities.
If I were in your situation, I would let her choose between burlesque and a a man who truly loves her and cares about her. Chances are she will choose burlesque but I would not be driving myself insane very long by walking away.
Some things are healthy for a relationship and others are not. In my book, that is not healthy.
If I started dating her knowing that she was an erotic dancer, I would have no room to complain. If, on the other hand, she became an erotic dancer after we started dating, I would be very insulted.
Good luck.
mgctouch | Nov 19, 2009
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